Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 8:50 pm
Post subject: Not sure what to do
My mother in law has been told she only has months to live today. She has had cancer for over a year now, but we thought it was stable. She has been told today it has come back aggressively and has only months. Really don't know what to do. My husband says he is fine and has been preparing himself for this, but am worried he is bottling it up. Also I feel I shouldn't feel as upset as she is my mil not my own mum, but I feel really upset myself, and feel guilty for this. So confused and upset.