getting started
  Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:42 pm
Post subject: getting started me and my girlfriend are vey happy an decided to start trying for a baby last month. However this is not going to plan, im in my 30's and always used condoms. Im now scared of not using them and carnt seem to be able to get over this dispite really wanting to start a family!!! HELP
Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 8:36 pm
Post subject: Could try seeing the doctor about it. Its probably just a psychological block because you've used them for so long. Breaking the habt will take time but will be easier if you're relaxed about it.
Good luck Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:47 am
Post subject: My oh is scared not to use a condom, or pull out too. It's taking some time to get used to it, and sometimes he can't finish still. I asked my oh what his advice is, and he said "alcohol". LOL! Classic! I'm not sure what else you can do, except maybe just focus on how great things feel without the condom. Go ahead, feel naughty, and give it to her! LMAO!
_________________  Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 11:43 pm
Post subject: Maybe you guys could do with some real "Ann Summers" type evenings? A few glasses of wine and a good "video" should sort it out....bareback (isn't that what men call it???!!
 ) is much better so focus on relaxing and i'm sure you'll get there eventually! Good luck!  _________________ I'm not on here all the time so if you need anything PM me Arch x Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:39 am
Post subject: Archie1 wrote:
Maybe you guys could do with some real "Ann Summers" type evenings? A few glasses of wine and a good "video" should sort it out....bareback (isn't that what men call it???!!
) is much better so focus on relaxing and i'm sure you'll get there eventually! Good luck!
wish sam's advice had been something like that...boring fek suggests seeing a doc _________________  
  Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 1:01 pm
Post subject: I guess you spent so long trying not to get pregnant it's still that fear locked inside you!
You could just try foreplay a few times and not full sex until you both feel really relaxed and there will be no pressure then until you are ready to take it further, and inbetween look at the baby pics forum, this is what you both want, so get used to the idea that a baby is the end result but unless you get over the fear, it won't happen....it could also be that you have realised that your partner will change in many ways, this will bring so much responsibility and hard work and is a lifetime job, so maybe the fear of the enormity of what is ahead is stopping you psychologically. _________________ 
  Posted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 10:32 pm
Post subject: Archie1 wrote:
Maybe you guys could do with some real "Ann Summers" type evenings? A few glasses of wine and a good "video" should sort it out....bareback (isn't that what men call it???!!
) is much better so focus on relaxing and i'm sure you'll get there eventually! Good luck!
i agree with archie1 make an evening off it food wine fruit and a naughty game or introduce somthing new???? try it (a massage often goes down well )  good luck got my fingers crossed_________________ 
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haha, she was very much wanted though i should say 
