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Posted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 9:08 pm 
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title says it all really!

in the last few weeks i've been pretty down, but the most noticeable thing is that i don't want sam to touch me, this isn't even a sex thing, i don't mind the sex! it's the affection, cuddles, kisses etc, whenever he comes near me i just have the urge to shie away and tell him to get knotted

have tried telling him how i feel but he thinks i'm joking, no matter how many times i say i'm not and that i literally cannot bear to be touched atm Confused he's so affectionate that it's driving me mental

no need to reply to this it's more of a whinge than anything Confused
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Posted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 9:13 pm 
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are you overly tired just now? (is that a stupid question Laughing )

i sometimes find when im very tired i cant stand anyone touching me!

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Posted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 9:18 pm 
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removed my reply simply because it was useless sorry x
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Posted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 9:53 pm 
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nope hun, well i have been for the last few days but both kids ave been going 7pm-7am with no wake ups so it's not that Confused
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:52 pm 
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Not sure if it is this..just a shot in the dark really Confused But have you started back on the pill? Reason I ask..is when I was off the pill, through pregnancy and BF..I loved cuddles and kisses..although I were never that active in the bedroom department. But since being back on it..I kinda feel like that too, but again..I go through phases in the B/R dept Rolling Eyes

Either that..or just generally cos of the way you are feeling about yourself atm Confused I know you were querying PND or depression generally..have you been to the doc's or talked to someone about how you are feeling?

I hope that what I have wrote hasn't upset you in any way Sad Big hugs. xxx
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 4:11 pm 
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i started back on the pill 21days after lewis was born so it could be that Confused hadn't connected that it couldbe that as i was on the pill for 8-9 years before coming off to have lily-ann Confused

i don't think it's cos of the way i feel about myself as i assume that would stop me wanting sex too Confused

i dunno, i just wish he'd stop touching me. he insists on kisses before sleep, when i get up etc and i know most women would love such an affectionate oh but atm it drives me bonkers
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 8:56 pm 
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oh hun, i cant imagine how u r feeling as i am the opposite, i am very affectionate and my oh isnt at all, he would never initiate a kiss or a cuddle, its always me, and from the other side, it can really hurt sometimes if it feels like ur oh isnt that interested. but to flip that, i can imagine, if it feels like u r being pestered, that it must be pretty irritating too. I also agree with Zee , when i was on the pill my hormones were through the roof and i was a narky hormonal bi t ch most of the time.as soon as i stopped, i felt more like me pretty much straight away. as for it not inhibiting your sex drive, i dont think thats necessarily the case, it affects all of us differently, just hope u r feeliing better soon, altho im sure its normal to have good days and bad days ,you have 2 beautiful babies under 2 and its hard work. xxxxxx
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:04 pm 
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if it is the pill i'm screwed because that's the only thing i can take...i'd end ip pregnant again in a nanosecond Shocked i'd love that though but so isn't practical Laughing
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 11:05 pm 
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kenty wrote:
if it is the pill i'm screwed because that's the only thing i can take...i'd end ip pregnant again in a nanosecond Shocked i'd love that though but so isn't practical Laughing
Isn't there anything else to take or use? I'm gunna look into it myself I think as I keep forgetting to take mine Rolling Eyes Either that or ask for a different one..they all seem to have different side effects. Which one are you on? I'm on Yasmin at the mo and was on Dianete before I was pg. But I think the best one for me was Mycrogynon30
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Posted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 11:19 pm 
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i'm on microgynon30. i went on it because i had such bad periods that i was bedbound for a week, nothing else worked so it's really not a good idea to come off it i have something that i know in advance will work the same as that Confused
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