am i or arent i
  Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 6:22 am
Post subject: hi got a phone call from my gp yestday saying my hcg levels had fallen and arranged for me to go to hospital where they basically told me that the pregnancy was failing im totally gutted and no words can explain how i feel at this momemt. ive got to go back sometime today or maybe monday to have a scan.
 Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 7:27 am
Post subject: Oh vix, I'm so sorry - do you know how far you are? Don't be too disheartened until you have all the information from the doctors and that you have gone for a check up. There could be another explanation for it.
I understand how you are feeling cos I had a m/c in january and only found out at my 12 week scan that i'd lost it so my oh and I were devestated - had no symptoms or warnings and had only found out i was pregnant about 2 1/2 weeks before. If the worst does happen remember that we are all here for you on here and that you will be okay. It's a tough thing to go through but you will be okay. Good luck with today or Monday, i'll be thinking of you and i'm here if you need me. Lots of hugz. Sarah xxxxxx Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:28 am
Post subject: I am so sorry to hear of your news. I was really hoping you would say that the hormones had doubled. However far along you are it still hurts and you were still pregnant, so allow yourself time to grieve. Take care.
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  Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:33 am
Post subject: Don't for a second think it's your fault, because it is not! Nothing you did or didn't do caused this. I told my daughter our babies had gone to heaven to pick the flowers and watch over her.
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Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 8:36 am
Post subject: I know how painful a miscarriage is, I have had 3, and they cause raw pain, but it is good that you are crying and grieving. Do not let anyone tell you it's your fault or that you should not be upset because it was your baby, however far along you were, and you still had hopes and dreams which have been taken away. I wish I could say something to make you feel better, but right now there really is nothing to say except I wish you luck and I am so sorry you are going through this.
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