Lowrii
Junior Member
Joined: 28 Sep 2008
Posts: 30
i haven't been on here in a while i am 17 and 21 weeks n 5 days pregnant with a baby boy
me and my baby's dad are not together any more, and he also doesn't want to be in his son's life im scared of bringing my baby up on my own! x
MummyAndPeppaPig
AskBaby Legend
Joined: 01 Jan 2008
Posts: 17822
Hi hun.
It is a scary prospect but Im sure you will be fine. Do you have close family around you who will help you out?
The babies daddy may well change his mind about not wanting to be a part of bringing the baby up once he is here.
Also remember we are all here to suport you.
xx _________________

Lowrii
Junior Member
Joined: 28 Sep 2008
Posts: 30
yer im stil living with my mother! so will get alot of help from her
i don't think he will as i live in Wales n he lives in England so not like i could get in contact with him easy!
can't wait until my little boy is here tho
n thanks hun xx
MummyAndPeppaPig
AskBaby Legend
Joined: 01 Jan 2008
Posts: 17822
My mum let me move back home when I fell pregnant and Im only just moving back out this weekend lol!!!
Just take as much help as you can get, the first few weeks are the hardest but as you and your baby boy get used to each other, you just sort of fall into a routine and you feel like you have all ways been a mum!!
With regards to the baby's daddy not being around, just look at it as his loss, your son is going to grow up with so much love and respect for you
I think your amazing taking this all on and being so young!
xx _________________

Lowrii
Junior Member
Joined: 28 Sep 2008
Posts: 30
how old are u hun if u don't mind me asking ??
and thank you feel alot better now
yer his loss just don't want my son wen he's older to think i stopped his father being in his life!
xx
MummyAndPeppaPig
AskBaby Legend
Joined: 01 Jan 2008
Posts: 17822
Im 23, for some reason people on here seem to think Im older, so Im not offended if you thought I was an oldie
Just be honest with your son, honesty is by far the best policy. I intend on telling Freya that I give her twice as much love a normal mummies to make up for her not having a daddy
xx _________________

Missmac75
Active Member
Joined: 01 Feb 2009
Posts: 84
Hi, just wanted to let you know your not alone in all this. Your lucky to have your mom around to help. Im single as my ex decided he doesnt do responsibility even though he planned this pregnancy with me, im 4 months by the way and 33 years old. I dont have my mom around but i do have great friends to lean on. Take care of you and your son, you'll be the stronger one in the end! x 
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