Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 1:54 pm
Post subject: single mum to be
Hi all, I'm not sure where to post this but I'm 6 weeks pregnant with my first child and have just been told by my OH that he doesn't believe the child is his so he wants nothing to do with us. He has given me no supporting evidence of why he thinks this as our child was planned, but this is what he believes and I have to deal with it. Sorry for the rant but I have no idea where to go or who to turn to.
Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:54 pm
Hi hunny, im too in a similar situation so your not alone. My OH went on and on to live with me and have a baby, im now 4 months pregnant, he still isn't here and keeps coming up with pathetic excuse after another which makes me think that if you planned your pregnancy your OH is using this 'it's not mine' as a cop out excuse...if he's anything like mine then he just cant cope and doesnt know how to cope with responsibility. I have had enough now after 4 months of him making meill with stress, its not good for mom or baby. Try and be strong and know that if you need to talk just message me. Take Care x