Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:38 am
We had coffee group today and he was just unhappy for the whole time. Back to the doctor i think. Gosh i feel like i should own shares in that place. When i ring and say hi its jayne speaking the nurse says would you like an appointment for Hunter? LOL how embarrasing!! Mind you there a valid reason each time and i will never regret taking him.
did you tell OH about this mornings test? how has he been with it all
Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:43 am
Yer he knows
I rang himn at work last time to tell him that i'd tested again adn it was BFP he was over the moon - have to say he is great with kids - infact had to stop him going and telling everyone last night.
When I tested again this monrning he just said may be it was not our time.....our time what's that all about!!!
Said I would wait and do it again later on in the week - I just don't feel right what what gets me the most - what with these windy pops and the trips to the loo every few hours (I can normally go all day without going!!) not to mention the back ache and the rise in temp - had no bleeding or sore boobs - that has to be siad - AAAAAHHHHHHHHH
Im going round the twist!!!
Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:54 am
My OH used to say the same thing about not being our time, I think its the only way they know how to cope. They want to be supportive but dont quite know how to do it. I had to remember that sometimes he was hurting as much as me and didnt want me to see. I caught him a couple of times having a cry in secret.
Do you have plans to keep yourself busy over the next couple of days so you not sitting and thinking about this all weekend?
Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:38 pm
I called the doctors and a doctor is calling me back at 4:40 to talk to me
Have re-tested again (I know I should wait) but again there is a very faint BFP - don't know if my eyes are just trying to find it or there is one and the OH is still at work and the dogs are not takeing me on when I ask them to check for me!!! LOL
Just as I was typing this the doctor called - she said that if the test shows a line - then there is a very very good chance that it's a BFP, it's just cause the hormone is so low that the test wont pick it up. She said that I have 2 options now: 1) to wait an re test on Tuesday 20 Go and have a blood test - the only thing with the blood test is that it will not be back until Tuesday any way - so she advised me to re take the test and we will speak again on Tuesday - so no further on really
But at least my mind has been settled a little
Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:53 pm
Well it was another faint one fishy and the Dr sounds like she thinks its positive. I know its hard and not conclusive but it is a bit positive for you. When I last found out I was pg I was so overjoyed till at 5 and a half wks the tests got fainter and fainter till my hormone dropped as baby was ectopic. At least you are early on and will prob find hopefully a stronger line by Tues. good luck pupx
Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 4:24 pm
I'm really glad for you that you had another faint line, but just hoping you will get a stronger one on monday or tuesday. Nice of the doctor to call you to talk it through. Can you not go to an EPU and get a blood test done there as those results are usually given on the same day.