HoneyNurse
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How long was it before your hubbys could drive after there vasectomy reversal?

xxSUExx
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Hi!! How is hubby doing?
It was about 2 weeks before Nigel drove, he prob could have done so earlier but he decided to wait a little longer so save squashing his nuts!!  _________________

xxSUExx
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Just re read my post......when I asked how hubby is... I mean is he nervous, excited etc. _________________

ClairaBell
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Ian drive about 4 days after op. He says the driving was ok. It was just the getting in and out of the car that was awkward. xxx _________________ After 3 and half years of ttc, tests being clear and unable to adopt, we have decided to become a patchwork family. Me, my hubby and stepchildren.
Its so sad to know I will never hear the word 'Mommy'.x
Alowicious
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Hi ladies,
My hubby drove about 4 days later too, when he stopped walking like John Wayne!!
LOL!!! _________________ 38-PCOS, DH 47-VR Miracle BFP Xmas 2009! 2012 azoospermia
IVF#1 - BFN IVF#2 starts 23/6/13
 
xxSUExx
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hmmm??? maybe I am exagerating but it seemed like 2 weeks!!  _________________

HoneyNurse
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He is really excited...ive been so busy at work this week that every time i see him he tells me the date we are having the op.....
The ward phoned this am to ask Dan to go in on wednesday for his pre-assessment, which he is excited about!!!
Although atm this is the last thing on his mind...his brother was stabbed 3 days ago...he doesnt like his brother, but feels like he should be there, he spoke to his niece who said there wasnt anything Dan could do as sean is in a coma at the moment, they think he will pull through but have had to do a tracheostomy and are unable to bring him round from the coma yet as he is extremely agitated when they do (he is a heavy crack cocaine user...so he is probably detoxing!!)

lillia
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Hi Honeynurse,
My oh drove after about a week. Time will fly by and before you know it the op will be done
Your poor OH, it is difficult when something awful happens to your family, whilst you may not like what they do , it dosen't mean you dont love them as family. Sometimes these things can help everyone put things in prospective and it may give his brother the shock he needs to help himself.
Good luck on wednesday! _________________ sept 2008 failed vas reversal
July 2009 ICSI, BFP but lost to severe OHSS
Nov 2009 Surgery to remove damaged ovary
October 2010 2nd ICSI, short protocol BFN
trying to raise funds for round 3, hoping to cycle august 2011
HoneyNurse
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I know what you mean Lillia, and i should know better than to judge....
Dan says that 'he doesnt like his brother but he cant help being a bit worried'
He doesnt think it wil shock him into changing, he overdosed on methadone which gave him 6 cardiac arrests in succession once they got him back his heart stopped again...and that didnt change him.
Ive never met his brother. but im here fore Dan whatever he feels about him.

ClairaBell
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Honey, i am so sorry to hear about your brother in law, even if relations arent what they should be. Like you said, all you can really do is stand by your oh right now. xxxx _________________ After 3 and half years of ttc, tests being clear and unable to adopt, we have decided to become a patchwork family. Me, my hubby and stepchildren.
Its so sad to know I will never hear the word 'Mommy'.x
xxSUExx
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Sean obviously doesn't value his life very much All you can do is what you are doing....stand by your oh and be there for him. I hope Dan's pre assessment goes well  _________________

lillia
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Aw honeynurse your OH is a lucky man to have you  _________________ sept 2008 failed vas reversal
July 2009 ICSI, BFP but lost to severe OHSS
Nov 2009 Surgery to remove damaged ovary
October 2010 2nd ICSI, short protocol BFN
trying to raise funds for round 3, hoping to cycle august 2011
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