Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 1:39 pm
Post subject: One or Two Put Back?????
i would just like a few other peoples ideas on this debate.......
My OH and i are just about to start IVF and as those of you who know us we dont have a fertility problem as such i just no longer have any tubes.......
We have been given a 50-60% chance of it working 1st time(average is 40%) so my Oh said we should just have one bean put back !!!!!!
im not so sure ........
we dont want twins but if we only have one put back does that not cut my chances in half???
We are also Catholic with a Catholic consultant who does not practice reductions in pregnancy.
Im so confused as to what to do .....ive got a short time to think this through ......we start IVF in 10 days ???
thanks all for listening
x x x
Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:02 pm
Hello, if it was me I would want 2 put back cos it would seem you have double the chance! I dont know if that is the case tho as multiple pregnancy's carry more risk. I wouldnt mind having twins infact I would love twins, the more the merrier as far as Im concerned!
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:06 pm
thats what most people say but i have 3 children already and 5 children wow thats like alot in one house .......
but then if we do one and get none then we are back to having to choose again
im healthy age not so bad 35 and we are ok money wise but its like oh wow id be the size of a bus !!!!