Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 7:57 am
Post subject: To my baby
I am missing you - it's only been a week since you weren't ready to come to us yet. Mummy loved have you growing in my belly for those 10 wonderful weeks. Daddy, your big brother and I hope to see you again soon when you come back when you are feeling ready to let go of your angel wings and come say hello.
Missing you loads.
Mummy, daddy and big brother Ibby.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:10 pm
So sorry for your loss hun - your message was lovely.
I wrote a similar one for my oh from our baby we lost in January - I sent him a father's day card from the baby - think it meant a lot to him. Helps the grieving process.
I wish you all the luck in the world for the future hun. xxxxxxx
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:09 pm
Yummy and Mrs Springer,
I am so sorry for your loss, i am sat here typing with streams and streams of tears running down my eyes.......and do you know what sometimes you think you have healed and can cope..... when we burried our little one that i lost at 17 weeks and had to give birth ther was a lovely poem being read out that day and i just silently started to cry before i was even realising I was.
Luckily we were given foot, hand and her blanket she was wrapped in and had tattoos done of our little one who we named Caitlynne.
Well we will never forget and my wishes are with you both and everyone else who has lost angels and peeple they are close too.
Lots of love and take care
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 7:56 pm
This is one of the hardest things to read but some how you feel compelled to do it.
Facing the loss of your little one is hard - the hardest thing I have ever had to do and not something I would ever wish on anyone - I have just had to stop and look at the scan picture of our baby.
We only had it if seven weeks but wanted it for nearly two years - i still feel lost sometimes and find myself sitting in what would have been the nursey look at all the things we bought in that short 5 weeks.
Why is the world so cruel - why have our babies been taken away from us we would have loved them so much nothing could have been more wanted in the world.
Tiddler Fish Mummy and Daddy love you and you will always be in our hearts and toughts - you will always be our First child - you will always be special.
Good night and God Bless my darling
Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 8:14 am
just read ur letter to ur baby thanks for sharing it ...i lost my baby last week and went in for a dc on tuesday the day u wrote ur letter i also wrote my baby a letter (mayb share it later)but i thought i was going mad by writing a letter to my angel...reading ur story proves im not going mad just that im hurting i felt so alone but i can honestly say reading other peoples experiences is so helpful to me rite now....take care and thank u xx