Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:53 am Post subject: Hmmm - some symptoms
Well, me and hubby aren't 'actively' trying, but we're also not being careful (since it took such a stupidly long time to get pregnant last time!). Been fairly active in the bedroom the last couple of weeks though and I'm now convinced I'm pregnant!! Sounds stupid, but - stop reading now if you don't like tmi - my poos have changed to what I think of as pregnancy poo, all dark and small.
Am I going mad? not due Af until 27th June, so am probably being ridiculous....
stupid thing is i can't help being all hopeful and excited, and I really really want to never have the horrible emotional rollercoaster of TTC every month ever again!! _________________
definatelymaybe
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:55 am Post subject:
Aaaw fingers crossed for you hun, last time did you know you were before you tested?
DevonMum
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:58 am Post subject:
nah - I'd had so very many cycles of thinking it was pg symptoms, then AF turned up every time. I did a bunch of tests, all negative, (was a dreadful testaholic) - so on the month when I actually WAS pregnant I decided it was just the same as always lol. Took me ages to believe the fertility nurse. My main symptom last time was sore boobs, but that wasn't til after AF was late, so not sure about this early on! _________________
tinkerbell123
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:35 pm Post subject:
xxxxGoodluck ladies when you poas!!! _________________ <a><img></a>
LauraG
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 3:22 pm Post subject:
well u certinaly cud be pregnant its not unusual to get symptoms before missed period and definetly if its your 2nd pregnancy as you no how u felt last time.
gd luck wishing the best for you. _________________
DevonMum
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 7:30 am Post subject:
the trouble is, is that its brought back all the pre-testing hopefulness same as ttc last time. I know already that I'm going to be massively disappointed if its a bfn, not sure I can go through all that again tbh. Maybe it would be best just to give up and go back on the pill, so there's no hoping/possibility? _________________
LauraG
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 12:02 pm Post subject:
i no what ur saying but i think if you wanna get pregnant u r doing it the rite way. if you concentrate in ovulationa nd everything it drives you nuts. _________________
DevonMum
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 12:03 pm Post subject:
yeah that was my thinking. Am just gonna have to force myself not to get hopeful each much. The hope is lovely, but the crashing disappointment each and every bfn is just too much to handle again tbh. _________________
LauraG
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 12:29 pm Post subject:
well uve got ur little boy now and he luks lovely so you just concentrate on him and if it happens then it happens:) _________________
DevonMum
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 12:30 pm Post subject:
good plan thanks for the advice Laura _________________