Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:01 pm
Post subject: desperate and unhappy
Hi, i'm new on this, and to be honest, i feel a bit strange as i have never been on a forum before.
However, i feel like i need to vent out somehow.
I have been married 4 years, and love my husband. We have been trying to concieve for over a year but no joy. To make things harder, friends and family seem to be getting pregnant around me left right and centre. I try so hard to be happy for them, but it just makes me feel worse.
My husband wants babies as much as i do, and we are being seen by a specialist, but still havent concieved.
Has anyone got ay advice? Tips?
Anything will be appreciated
Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 6:03 pm
Take a holiday, de-stress, take some "me-time" and get back to just loving each other. Let sex be fun again and not just for one cause. Sometimes you get so emotionally stressed that nothing else matters anymore! Remember how much you love each other and beleive that when the time is right, you will have your bundle of joy.
Wishing you lots of babydust!!!
The seed of a miracle lies not in difficulty, but in imposibility... May you see yours today.
Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 6:10 pm
I want you to keep hoping, It took us eight years and several bouts of IVF to get pregnant and now im pregnant for the third time so if it can happened for me then it can happened for you! It seemed to me like everyone was pregnant and everywhere I went I saw babies! And I know that it drives you mad but trust me just try and relax and keep on hoping =)
If you ever need to talk just pm me, ill be happy to talk =)
Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 7:14 pm
Post subject: dont give up!
dont give up my husband and i tried to conceive for about a year and just as we were about to give up,fate took over and before i knew it i was pregnant.
you just need to forget about it for a while and not make baby making a priority and fate will do the work