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faye1984
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 1:28 am 
Post subject: whos been through this??
I dont even know where to start tbh......after a year of [*@!#%*] with ovarian cysts etc i found out last month that both my tubes are blocked, been trying with my partner for over a year for our first, and now to find out that its never gonna happen is so so weird.....cant describe it really, when i was younger i could never imagine myself being pregnant and having a baby.......was it a sign? i honestly think it was!
Anyways i have to go back to my specialist in 6 months (just after my honeymoon) to start the ivf process, im scared that its not gonna work, that im gonna let my other half down, that i can never have my own children, its kills me.....is anyone else in the same boat, would love for you to share your thoughts aswell, totally lost right now :$ x
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 8:51 am 
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Hey Hun,

Dont bea yoursself up about this it happens to more people thanyou think ......i hd my sterilisation reversed last year near perfect i was told by my consltant ........in jan this year i had to h both mytubes removed from a m/c and an infection due tothat ....ivf was our only option and it worked 1s time no stress so easy to do ........honest if it was all that easy ...... the people who work in that field know its hard for yu ad have lots and lotsof time to explain and listen to you......i sure you will befine and it will go well..
there is thread for ivf/icsi/iui with women at all stages of treatment maybe wheyou feel up to itt pop over and say hi they are a good bunch


all the best hun


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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:40 pm 
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Hey hun,

You're really not alone. We've been trying for 4.5 years now I have PCOS & Endo. so its all my fault we aren't concieving. My hubby comes from a really big family and when I say to him that I've really let him down he replies that he thinks he is really lucky to have me and I am sure your hubby feels the same.

These things are sent to try us - is the saying. We will make the BEST mummys when our time comes.

Take care xx
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 5:49 pm 
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Please dont give up hope im 16 weeks pregnant with ivf. We had been trying for 3 years . had a misscarage after 1 lot of ivf but had an eptopic before that which had stopped me from being able to concieve nat. It does work i promise x x x x x
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 11:25 pm 
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aw thanks, those posts made me feeling better Smile good luck to you all, guess its just a case of chin up, keep smiling & be positive!
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:53 am 
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Faye there are lots of us IVF / ICSI / IUI ladies on here and we all support eachother, It is a devistating blow when you find out you can't concieve naturally but IVF is not nearly as bad as i thought it would be.

Just make sure you look after eachother xx
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:48 am 
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dear Lillia
I have everything crossed for you. I really hope you get the result you want. Good luck chin up and lots of love to you both x x x
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