Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 5:58 pm
Post subject: lifes not fair!
sorry but had a real bad day - have been to a funeral of a wonderful man - he was 37 and died last week after 2 years being really really ill with cancer - the thing that gets me is the fact that he wont get to see his beautiful little boys grow up and at 4 they are too young to have many memories. the babies were ivf and sooo wanted. there are some v v bad people in the world but the good ones get taken????? any idea how this balance gets changed? hope i havent offended anyone
Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 6:04 pm
i know what you mean i lost a person extreemly close to me last year also to cancer and it absolutley tears me apart knowing he will never get to see my baby. although i do consider this pregnancy as a gift from him as he knew we had been trying for a long long time.
take care hun and hope you feel better soon
Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 6:36 am
Sometimes we really think that life isnt fair, and it isnt if we're asked... but there is someone who make plans for us and He knows what is best for us.
In the end we all we'll die one day..but someone earlier and someone later.
I am a believer in God, and I do think that this life has been given to us just to gain as much chanses as possible to get rewards in the other life.
I really pray that God sends patience to those families who lost loved ones.. and hopefully they have good memories to remember.