Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2011 6:57 pm
thanks for your reply Kendall
I've calmed down a bit now thankfully, was only that one little drop, nothing since then so decided not to phone midwife, if I get anymore at all though I will phone. Just feel a bit silly phoning over a little blob? Although I did proper panic at first. It could well be stress with worrying over movements!! god I'm so much worse this time around than with Ava, worry about everything!
I do think though that I have felt some movements, just not a big kick like I did with Ava, defo feeling something strange that is different to wind
When I had spotting before the midwife said its very common and only to worry if it was bright red?
Anyway I'm going to chill as much as possible and relax as best I can....
Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 11:41 pm
Hi ladies, hope you're all doing ok?
Katie, hope things are ok now and you're ok?
I've had a weird month this month, posted on ttc but not had many replies, af was due today but Thursday evening I had a heavy bright red bleed, by Friday lunchtime nothing :-/
I'd been to the doctors Thursday after having bad stomach cramps on and off for 2 weeks and doctor diagnosed an infection in my intestines (got to have tests done now to be sure) but allsorts been going through my mind. And just to make it worse my stomach is swollen like a balloon so I actually look about 3 months pregnant
Had posted before about af not lasting long but less than 24 hours, surely that's not right?
Anyway is everyone ready for Christmas? Our spare bedroom looks like toys r us Amelia keeps going in and saying what's these mummy, everything's in bags or boxes so keep saying it's old things that need putting in the loft....she won't fall for it next year!!!
Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 6:38 pm
Hi ladies, I'm fine now thanks Sharon, only had a teeny bit more spotting yesterday, and got a Doppler to hear baby's heartbeat and all seems well. Going to make an appointment with the midwife though just in case as I've also been getting really sore heads every morning!
Sharon really sorry but I don't really know anything about infections at all.....just make sure you are getting tested, going to the docs was the best thing. Fingers crossed its something thats easily sorted. I remember my friend had an infection when she was pregnant, she had bright red bleeding, everything was fine with her and bubs though.
Let us know how u get on?
Gemma have you had any signs with baby yet? Not long now!!!
Posted: Thu Nov 17, 2011 9:30 pm
Hi ladies just thought I'd update you after my earlier post.
Had to go back to the doctors Tuesday after getting bad stomach pains again, doctor sent me straight to hospital with a suspected ectopic pregnancy.
Hospital confirmed I was pregnant but hcg levels too low to scan, re-tested levels today and they've nealry halved so Im losing the baby.
Have lots of unanswered questions but still trying to get my head around it at the moment.
Posted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 10:29 pm
Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2011 9:21 pm
Thanks Kendall x
Katie, yes a week, I think it's just to make sure my hcg has dropped enough to confirm the pregnancy has ended.
No they haven't confirmed it was ectopic, because they couldn't do a scan it's up to a consultant to decide whether it goes on record as that because of my symptoms.
Im so confused because everyone seemed convinced it was ectopic but then the nurse who gave me my hcg results said it was unlikely :-/
But if so then I would have thought I would have had more bleeding but who knows!!
Thanks again for your messages ladies xx
Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 5:45 pm
Hmm it is strange that the nurse said it was doubtful. They thought i was having an ectopic with this baby and i was scanned right away, obviously baby was in my womb but the midwife had said if it had been ectopic the pain would have got worse and worse, excruciating pain and i would develop a fever and start throwing up, did you have these symptoms? Hopefully they can answer all your questions on thursday.
Ive had the most stressful week. My boss at work died in a car crash she was only 45, then the next night at work a patient commited suicide jumping out the hosp window!! We are on the top floor plus ive got that cold bug going around so tbh i cant wait for this week to be over with xx
Ian, Bella and Baby Bean ♥
Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 9:02 pm
Kendall that's awful, saw your fb status about your work colleague, makes you appreciate life doesn't it! Hope you're doing ok?
When I had the first bleed I had the excruciating pain and sickness, oh nearly took me to a and e at 3 in the morning but it eased off, then had more pain the following Tuesday which is when I ended up in hospital.
I have started bleeding again today so although it feels more final it's also what I would have expected.
Im doing ok though and am grateful that I have Amelia xxx
Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 3:08 pm
Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 4:17 pm
It has been horrible and very stressful. Doesn't help am being a spas about putting on weight my bump seems so huge this time. My scales say I've put on between 2-6lbs depending what time of day I weigh myself, then Some days I weigh the same as I did before being pregnant. Im officially obsessed but I can't help it really don't want to be huge again... But I'm sooo hungry all the time! Damn hormones lol. I put on any 4 and a half stone the last time tho and it took slot of hard work to lose it. Even thinking of joining the gym to keep fit. Gav it up back in feb because I had lost enough weight and I hate the gym, but at least I will feel like I'm doing something and not just eating all the time.
Hope ur feeling better Sharon, hugs and love coming ur way xoxoxoxox
Ian, Bella and Baby Bean ♥
Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 5:51 pm
Kendall I know how you feel, I was like that with Ava but that's when I was more obsessed with losing weight. I still hate putting on weight but I'm no where near as bad as I used to be. I put on about 3 and a half stone with Ava but didn't find it too hard to lose it.
I am however about twice the size this time round already I've put on about 10 pounds already!!!!! Whichi think is really bad! But I feel so so hungry all the time! Haven't been doing any exercise at all so I have to expect it really.
My bump is huge which I'm not used to!
I have to say I hate being this big, I literally have nothing to wear but I know I will be determined to lose it after so it's not going to stop me eating when I'm hungry or make me worry or think too much about it....not yet anyway
It's prob because your weight loss is quite recent that your finding it hard....maybe just make sure you get out walking if it makes you feel better?