[Luckyducky]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD

[dollychops2]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD

[dawnb]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD

[DevonMum]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD

[keekaboo]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD

[Luckyducky]

I am 8 weeks pregnant with my first baby and hadn't planned on telling family until 12 weeks, when things are 'safer'. However various friends now know either because we've told them or they've guessed and we're feeling more and more guilty for not telling family. There are no 'links' from these friends to our family, so they won't hear by mistake, but still feel bad that they don't know.

To make things more complex, my sister has lost 2 babies after telling people at 12 weeks, and at 6 weeks, so I don't want to put my family through all that again if things go wrong.

aaahhh! Don't know what to do. Any advice?

LD