Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 12:57 pm
Post subject: Hello ;-)
Hi, i'm sissy. Thought i would say a hello everyone!
I found this site upon chance looking for information on sterilisation reversal info!
Found a wonderful thread and her i am !!
I'm 35 with 5 children. Sadly i lost my 5 th child at 5 weeks of age .She had a heart condition, but sadly died after her operation.
I was sterilised while having a c-setion. But now waiting to have a reversal.
Look forward to making lots of new friends and lots of chat lol
Take care and thanks for reading !
Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:01 pm
amypicot and samaurish thanks for the warm welcome xx
Yes, losing my daughter was the worst thing ever. I have to confess i thought my world had fallen apart. I think it did for a long while.
But in a nice way, God has spared her of a life of pain and suffering. We meet up every night in my dreams, we have the biggest hugs.
But i know she is still very much still with me, even if it's not in person.
I tell my other children that Shannon lives in heaven with grandpa. Together they make is rain, snow etc.
Yesterday we had a storm. So i told the children that Shannon had stole Grandpa's slippers and he was chasing Shannon around to get them back. The lighting was Shannon turning the light on and off so Grandpa couldnt see her lol My kids thought it was so funny and laughed for ages. To hear such laughter i can tell you made me cry but in a nice way if you know what i mean?
See told you i natter too much lol !!!
Look forward to getting to know you both xxxx
Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:21 pm
Evening Sissy, welcome to the site. everyone on hear are really friendly and helpfull.
Im so sorry to hear about you loss and loosing you little girl at such a young age, can't imagine hoe you cope with something like that.
I don't have any idea about reversal but i know there are a few ladies on the ttc section that migth be able to help and advise you.
Wish you all the best and good luck hun, we are all here for you is u need to talk or want some advise.
Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:25 pm
I can not begin to imagine what you have been through with the loss of Shannon but I think its absolutley brill the little stories you tell your other children. I can see why it made you cry, bless them and you !!!!
Well, I'll bore you a bit about me. I have a 17yr old daughter Lauren and a 8 month old daughter Asha. Was married but separated and now living mi my toy boy....hence the big age gap in kids ha ha !! Due to go back to work on the 28th but really not looking forward to it. Love being at home but they won't let me go back part time, miserable g*ts !!!
How you going about your reversal. Have you been to doc's ? Pls tell me to keep my nose out if i'm asking too personel questions xxxx
Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:43 pm
Thanks ladybee and lauraG xx Have joined the trying to concieve
Samaurish, ask away hun lol
I'm 35 married. I have a 15yr, 6yr, 4yr, 3yr. Then i had a miscarrige. Then had Shannon.
So i have been a bit busy lol. I'm a stay at home mummy and love it!
My GP suggested i think about having a reversal at my 6 wk check up. After all my appointments i'm booked for the op on the 17 th July! So only a week and a bit to go!!!!!!!
It took a lot of soul searching to have the op done. But i know i would never try to replace Shannon. Some of my friends were so shocked. But then they have no idea and are not willing to understand. That's their problem to be frank!
That will be hard going back to work hun
What a shame they wont offer you part time.