Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 7:14 pm
Post subject: few concerns..
ok ive found out im pregnant with my partner of 9 years who i never use contraception with and missed takin my pill for approx 2-3 weeks, however i had a STUPID STUPID moment where for the first time ever i slept with someone else just twice using protection (condom) which could have been somewhere between this time,now do i need to worry that the baby could be his? im so upset and panicing and yes i do no i have been stupid but it wasnt planned this way. please help ease my mind please
Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 5:21 pm
Post subject: oooops
hiya sounds bad......but the chances are its your bfs if at that time you was sleeping with him more often.....but if there is a chance ur baby is this other man and you decide to keep it you sould be honest and tell your parnter what happened and do a dna test when the time comes .......good luck xx
Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 3:47 pm
if you used a condom with the other guy, chances are you are pregnant by your partner - unless the condom broke etc (did you notice any problem with it afterwards? am guessing not!).
Its really up to you and your conscience what you do now with regards to coming clean with your partner. Personally I'd say come clean now so you guys have time to work through any issues before baby comes - and if the worst comes to the worst you still have time to make all pregnancy decisions on your own.
Really hope it works out for you - remember everyone makes mistakes, you just gotta take a deep breath and try to fix it. Good luck
Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 8:30 am
not a problem as far as pregnancy goes, although you could have been unlucky and caught something nasty I suppose.
From what you say, I doubt this guy is your baby's Dad. So now your problem is whether or not to tell your partner regardless. Whichever you decide, I really hope it all works out for you.