Help how do i cope??
  Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:56 pm
Post subject: Help how do i cope?? Hi ladies not been on in a while seems like forever!! Just dont seem to have had the time.
 So my new situation.... IM NEWLY SINGLE!!! i feel so lonely. how will i cope? Ex has decided its not working out. Reality is he just cant cope with 2 kids more like, too much like hard work. so now im on my own with a 5 1/2 month and 21 month old baby.
anyone have any kind words or advice to a new single mum? or anyone single or in the same position? caz x x _________________  
  Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:08 pm
Post subject: Thanks hun, iv realised now hes just a P***k! his loss at the end of the day. im the 1 who will get to see them everyday and see those special moment and that so hard luck to him.
caz x x _________________
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:08 pm
Post subject: Oh dear that's not nice
 Sorry I don't have advice, but if he he is not man enough to cope with 2 kids you probably are better off without him ( i expect it was like having a 3rd child eh?!)
I can imagine its going to be hard - but you will cope cos they are your kids, and mums manage - they always do! 
Do you have parents that are willing to help -- if so it will be good for the older one to go to them on the odd day or so - at least you might get a bit of rest while the small one naps! Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:22 pm
Post subject: I'm also newly single, and i found the past couple of weeks so tough and i don't even have a baby yet, so in your situation it must feel 100000 times worse!
He's a prick at the end of the day and you'll be better off without him in the long run  _________________   Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:26 pm
Post subject: I'm sorry you are going through this, i was a single parent for 2 months and it was very hard but it's also very rewarding! Your children will always love their mummy for caring for them so [*CENSORED*] him!!! A lot of the time they're just not worth it!!! xxxx
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  Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:34 pm
Post subject: I know, always
 and yes that's right all you need are your little ones and your family the majority of men can't look after themselves let alone anyone else 
Btw i got back with the other half not met and moved in with someone after 2 months xxxx_________________
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:53 pm
Post subject: Hi Caroline, i dont have any advice for you i am afraid but just wanted to let you know, me and mara are only down the road from you so if you ever need to get out and about and need a shoulder, give us a shout and we will meet you for a coffee.
Chin up, enjoy ur kids without the extra stress of the bad relationship. _________________  [/url]
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Jo&Alice Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:15 pm
Post subject: awwwwwww hun! typical bloke running out when it gets tough...i'm not in the situation but just wanted to send positive thoughts....so many mum's do it alone and do an amazing job...am sure you'll cope xxx
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