Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:56 pm
Post subject: Help how do i cope??
Hi ladies not been on in a while seems like forever!! Just dont seem to have had the time. So my new situation.... IM NEWLY SINGLE!!! i feel so lonely. how will i cope? Ex has decided its not working out. Reality is he just cant cope with 2 kids more like, too much like hard work. so now im on my own with a 5 1/2 month and 21 month old baby.
anyone have any kind words or advice to a new single mum? or anyone single or in the same position?
caz x x
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:08 pm
Oh dear that's not nice Sorry I don't have advice, but if he he is not man enough to cope with 2 kids you probably are better off without him ( i expect it was like having a 3rd child eh?!)
I can imagine its going to be hard - but you will cope cos they are your kids, and mums manage - they always do!
Do you have parents that are willing to help -- if so it will be good for the older one to go to them on the odd day or so - at least you might get a bit of rest while the small one naps!
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:22 pm
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:26 pm
I'm sorry you are going through this, i was a single parent for 2 months and it was very hard but it's also very rewarding! Your children will always love their mummy for caring for them so [*CENSORED*] him!!! A lot of the time they're just not worth it!!! xxxx
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:34 pm
I know, always and yes that's right all you need are your little ones and your family the majority of men can't look after themselves let alone anyone else
Btw i got back with the other half not met and moved in with someone after 2 months xxxx
Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:53 pm
Hi Caroline, i dont have any advice for you i am afraid but just wanted to let you know, me and mara are only down the road from you so if you ever need to get out and about and need a shoulder, give us a shout and we will meet you for a coffee.
Chin up, enjoy ur kids without the extra stress of the bad relationship.