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carolinew
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:56 pm 
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Hi ladies not been on in a while seems like forever!! Just dont seem to have had the time. Rolling Eyes So my new situation.... IM NEWLY SINGLE!!! i feel so lonely. how will i cope? Ex has decided its not working out. Reality is he just cant cope with 2 kids more like, too much like hard work. so now im on my own with a 5 1/2 month and 21 month old baby.
anyone have any kind words or advice to a new single mum? or anyone single or in the same position?
caz x x
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:05 pm 
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Awe keep your chin up! At least now you can concentrate on your kids Smile If you were arguing before it might be easier now.

Hope things work out for you hun Smile x x x
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:08 pm 
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Thanks hun, iv realised now hes just a P***k! his loss at the end of the day. im the 1 who will get to see them everyday and see those special moment and that so hard luck to him.
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:08 pm 
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Oh dear that's not nice Sad Sorry I don't have advice, but if he he is not man enough to cope with 2 kids you probably are better off without him ( i expect it was like having a 3rd child eh?!)

I can imagine its going to be hard - but you will cope cos they are your kids, and mums manage - they always do! Very Happy

Do you have parents that are willing to help -- if so it will be good for the older one to go to them on the odd day or so - at least you might get a bit of rest while the small one naps! Very Happy
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:11 pm 
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yeah i have plenty of support, been staying with my mum and dad til i get sorted out and happy to stay on my own! Sad
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:17 pm 
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When you see the smiles on your childrens faces - thats what will get you through it. Just take each day as it comes and keep your head up high!
It will get easier I promise!
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:21 pm 
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thanks hun for your kind message, thats sooo true!! Very Happy
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:22 pm 
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I'm also newly single, and i found the past couple of weeks so tough and i don't even have a baby yet, so in your situation it must feel 100000 times worse!
He's a prick at the end of the day and you'll be better off without him in the long run Smile
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:25 pm 
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Thanks lisa i so know what you have gone through. ((((hugs)))) its hard but will be ok in the end. just cant believe it feels unreal
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:26 pm 
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I'm sorry you are going through this, i was a single parent for 2 months and it was very hard but it's also very rewarding! Your children will always love their mummy for caring for them so [*CENSORED*] him!!! A lot of the time they're just not worth it!!! xxxx
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:31 pm 
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So nicely put hun Very Happy Laughing Laughing
Think now adays a lot of the men out there seem to be like this. My Reece is the only man i need! Laughing Very Happy
caz x x
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:34 pm 
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I know, always Wink and yes that's right all you need are your little ones and your family Smile the majority of men can't look after themselves let alone anyone else Laughing

Btw i got back with the other half not met and moved in with someone after 2 months Laughing xxxx
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:53 pm 
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Hi Caroline, i dont have any advice for you i am afraid but just wanted to let you know, me and mara are only down the road from you so if you ever need to get out and about and need a shoulder, give us a shout and we will meet you for a coffee.

Chin up, enjoy ur kids without the extra stress of the bad relationship.
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 6:11 pm 
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Hi jo. where abouts are you? that would be great, PM if you would like to chat and that
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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:15 pm 
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awwwwwww hun! typical bloke running out when it gets tough...i'm not in the situation but just wanted to send positive thoughts....so many mum's do it alone and do an amazing job...am sure you'll cope xxx
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