I wished a wish and it was for you x
  Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:38 pm
Post subject: nothing much more i can add that the ladies havent already said, but my heart goes out to u and ur DH, take care and be strong, u r amazing getting through that the way u have. xxx
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 Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 4:40 pm
Post subject: Thanks ladies, the only thing I can add really, is that when I get my chance again, I will take so good care of me and baby, and relish and enjoy every moment of pregnancy - yes even the morning sickness! There is no telling why this happened, but my gut feeling is that I was rushing around and didnt look after myself the way I should have. Money was tight and I was working hard, plus dad was ill and subsequently died just before we lost Harry, and I was visiting him a lot and it was quite a drive to get to him. I wouldnt change that for the world, and I am glad I saw lots of him in his last days, but you cant help wondering if I could have looked after myself better. My body was so tired, and I kept pushing myself. What Im really saying, is to those of you who are pg, take very good care of yourselves, and if you feel something is too much, then dont do it. Dont do anything to please others, just make sure you take care of yourselves. Big hugs to you all Pipsx
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Post subject: that was beautiful
i hope you are okay chic you will see your little angel again and i hope one day you can cherish having a baby of your own in your arms may your little angel rest in peace and big hugz to you we are all hear for you, we may not have all dealt with a loss but we can support you nats xx _________________   Posted: Wed Sep 10, 2008 9:01 pm
Post subject: Pips i've never read this before, i didn't know this section was here. You have made me cry buckets reading this and my heart goes out to you for being so strong.
My problems are so small compared to what you have been through xxxx Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 5:21 am
Post subject: Just watched a programme on tv about grieving, and a phrase stuck in my mind, which summed up what I have been aiming for - " may we lose the grief and keep the memories" . I think that is what I wish for all of us when we are ready (My losses are now over a year ago, so it takes some time). I think there comes a point, and I am at that point, that I need to let the bitterness go, never forgetting and carrying Harry as a light in my heart forever. To all of you ladies (and families) who have lost, may all our times come when we feel at peace again, holding onto our memories, and our love for our babies, but with a peace in our hearts. Wishing you all lifetimes of love and happiness ahead Pipsxx
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Post subject: My thoughts lie with you.. And to your partner, i cant imagine how you both must be feeling. Your words which came from your heart made my heart flutter and my eyes water.
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 Posted: Mon Aug 30, 2010 8:11 am
Post subject: Wow. Its been so long since I was on here. But got reply notification from email - thank you so much ladies. Its so good to know it wasnt just me and hubby who remembered. You are stars xxxxxxx
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