Posted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 12:22 pm
Post subject: Il have to babys at 21! :cry:
Hi new to this so bare wit me.
At 18 i fell pregnant and had a beautiful son. I found this hard as i never expected 2 b a young mum, bu i had my OH n we had been together 6 years.
Me an my OH have our usual ups and down but at the minute are living together.
It was hard anyway until i found out on saturday that i am pregnant again.
I dunno how to feel about this?
My OH suggested abortion, bu its somethin I would never consider, i jus dont know how i will cope with two kids so young.
My OH says e will nt b able to cope and it will only be a matter fo time before we break up with the pressure.
At the minute he is coming round to the idea an he loves our first son more than life itself, so im hoping he jus needs time.
To make matters worse had my first check up and my blood pressure is sky high...
Too much to worry about!
Posted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 1:26 pm
im 22 and have 2 girls. had my first at 18 and second at 21.
my situation is different as both were planned.
i imagine its quite difficult wen chidlren arnt planned u have to cope with a big shock.
maybe ur oh dus just need some time to think.