BecksAndAlatheia
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been a real roller coaster of emotions!! finally spoke to my sister at 1am, was pleased to hear her voice and that she was ok!!! my mum has driven me mad and the way shes behaving recently i have found really hurtful, but i wont go into that now! really sulky on nearly 3hr journey home cos hubby wanted to go for a drink with his mate (who's wife is nearly 8 weeks preg - yay) but to decide to abandon me on new years eve so late in the day just sucked and i kept fighting off the tears!
plus i think i must be expecting another period cos i feel like i did at the begining of december - pregnant! if we hadnt of got a macd's when we did i swear i was going to throw up!! but i went through these symptons a month ago and we're not trying, we've hardly had sex even!
gosh i feel so unsexy!! my boobs have suffered from how big they've go, if i slough without a bra on my nipples are nearly level with my belly button - that is just awful!! how am i meant to feel sexy with boobs like that! my 36jj no longer fits properly and where am i meant to get a nice nursing bra in my size that gives my boobs some oumph!
i do feel positive about the new year though, when i go shopping this week i am going to kick start with weight watchers diet and 15 mins exercise a day - got a book for £2 in tesco on exercise and when i got home found it has post natal exercises in the back - yay! so by the end of the year i hope to have dropped 2-3 dress sizes, feel better about myself, being more productive (bought a book on sewing childrens clothes, made alatheia some cute leggins last night already), told my hubby that this time next year i want us to talk about when to have baby #2! and there was something else and ive forgotten already!!
whats everyone elses plans for the new year? xox _________________

BecksAndAlatheia
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tash, i just googled where my mum lives and seen you just a bit north from her! what a small world! xox _________________

MrsMB
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Hi ladies,
We've all been sick so I'm only just catching up with everything! Our first Christmas with Stephen wasn't great, he was poorly and my niece and sil were poorly. My niece ended up in hospital christmas day because her temp was so high I also forgot to cook my pretend chicken for christmas dinner (I'm a veggie) and only remembered as we were leaving for my mum's house Then there was a burst water mains near my mums house so we had no water for the majority of christmas day! Anyway, hopefully everyone is on the mend now and Stephen is finally enjoying all his toys!
Aww becks, I hope you're feeling ok today, I would feel the same but I'm sure he just didn't ring up and tell you everything himself cos he's a dopey man! I'm on a health kick too because I want to loose weight and get fit but also we're going to start ttc this month yey! Still a secret though facebook ladies xxx _________________

katie198920
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happy new year everyone!
hope every one is good.
im such a proud mummy ruby is crawling everywhere, pulling herself up on everything!, saying mamma n today she stood up on her own for 5 seconds! im so excited!!!
hope u and stephen are feeling better.
do u all have a nice christmas? _________________
 
XxSunshineMummyXx
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Aww Becks i hope you're feeling better, i'm sure your sister didn't mean anything by it. Its much easier to share on these sites and forums than with family, i wouldn't take it to heart. You do seem to be very emotional though, hope it's not the baby thing, if it is speak to the OH, it's always worth a try and isn't it supposed to be about what you both want.
Its is a small world. How long has she lived around here?
Kim i'm sorry Christmas hasn't been brilliant, i didn't really enjoy it to be honest, found it very stressful. Lovely to hear about the ttc though
Katie i'm glad Ruby is doing so well xxx _________________

 
BecksAndAlatheia
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kim, i hope your all getting better and that ttc goes well! lucky you!
katie, well done on all your lo's achievements! it's scar how quickly they are all growing up!
tash, my mums lived there 4 years now, her partner is from wolverhampton and she moved up when she met him. conratulations on getting back with nick! i hope everything is going well. you deserve some peace and calm over the next six months before this lo arrives!
i'm feeling a bit better now, have gotten over the thing with my sis, i was a little hurt but she's just had a baby so wont let it get to me. plus my nephew is darling and has made me a very proud aunty!
i'm been a right ratty cow! been really snappy with dh. i had a bath with alatheia (first one she's ever clamed down in - yipee!) and dh took her to dry and dress her while i stayed in then i sneaked in the bedroom an hour or so and had some time to myself which i so needed! i wish he would just think for himself so i dont have to ask all the time!
i am so broody, especially as friends of ours have told us they are 8 weeks preg! but i really want a bit more time, it's not the right time for us. i told hubby that my plans for the year is to drop a couple of dress sizes, be more content and happy and show that im coping so we can talk about no 2. i'm ok to wait, would be nice to try later in the year!
right, im going to go look through my saved links and work out what im going to make for alatheia xox _________________

RorosMum
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Mainly keeping track of everyone through FB but thought I'd pop back here and say hi. And also that I'm so tired! how do you ladies with more than one keep up! Rowen needs supervision all the time she's just drawn to danger. Arrrrrrgh.  _________________
 
RorosMum
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Aww that sounds fab, the reflux must have been so distressing for you both. I really must get Rowen into a routine like that! 7-7 and the 3 feeds 3 meals sounds perfect!! xx _________________
 
RorosMum
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Awwwww you'll get through it hunny. At least it's you she wants and even if she's only taking milk for comfort at least she can get that comfort, it'd be so much worse if she had nothing to settle or soothe her. I know you're tired and sore and she's super active but you can be proud she's doing so well. She looks brilliant in your FB pics, really lovely little girl.xx _________________
 
MrsMB
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Hi ladies, just to let you know that I'm expecting again Please don't mention it on facebook though because it's a secret xxx _________________

XxSunshineMummyXx
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Woo hoo that's fantastic Kim! I knew as soon as i saw your name what it would be and noticed your ticker before anything else Congratulations!xxxx _________________

 
MrsMB
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Thanks hun Can't quite believe it still! I've got 2 more frer to do to convince myself, even though I've got 6 positive tests so far, it's just not sinking in!xxx _________________

RorosMum
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Rowen will be 1 in 6 weeks. I'm quite unprepared for it. Argh.
Congratulations Kim xxx _________________
 
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