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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:25 pm 
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I know itsa ages away.. but when i was 5 weeks pregnant I thought being 20 weeks pregnant was ages away and im nearly there now!!
Im so scared of labour.. was just wondering if anyone was due close to me so we can freak out together lol xx
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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 5:09 pm 
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Hi,
not due close to you, but next week, also a bit apprehensive, but recommend you go antenatal classes and ask any doubts you have to mums...to put your mind at rest.
I am sure everything will be OK, don't worry.
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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 10:11 pm 
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helloo dearest Very Happy

well im not due then but im 2weeks later but i defo know how you feel .. i cnt even imagine how its going to go or feel Shocked

one thing tho.. stephens hand will be getting severly squeezed Very Happy

hehe xx
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Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 2:56 pm 
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Hiya
I'm due at the end of Jan and i'm thinking about it but more along the lines of creating a plan for how i'll pace myself and cope with the experience. I'm looking forward to it as its the last milestone before i meet my little one. I'm not too worried as our bodies are made to do this, dont worry about it as you'll have support and your m/w there every step of the way to guide you through.

It will be fine just dont get yourself too worked up or you'll be dreading it when it does finally happen and wont be able to focus on getting baby out safe and well.

Have a good weekend and think about having a positive birth!

Axxx
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Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 5:17 pm 
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Mum2Be, i'm like a week ahead of you and im terrified too, i just want it to be fast and painless.

My sisters friend was due 11 days ago so the hospital broke her waters today and as of 30 mins ago, she is only 3cm dilated so she has got ages to go !!!

I dont want that Sad
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 5:07 pm 
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Such a scary thing though, Im sure once we get bigger we will just want to give birth.. but oh gosh im still terrified.. i try not to think about it though

Think i will be going to antenatal classes, is anyone else!!

Nic im glad im not the only one lol.. no horror stories plz if ur a week infront!! lol

And Nats.. OMG im scared lol.. at least im before u Razz lol xxxxxxxx
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Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 8:45 am 
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Hi Mum 2Be, god yeah i'm terrified. I'm booking my antenatel classes next week, i think you really have to book in advance round out way xx
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Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 8:50 pm 
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hi mum2b im due 22nd Jan...but to be honest im actually looking forward to the experience of giving birth...im sure it will be hard going but I can't wait to experience it. just hope it all goes smoothly so i can try n enjoy it. my sister has two, both hers only lasted 5 or 6 hours, hopefully it runs in the family Laughing

try not to worry too much, im sure it will be a wonderful experience and its the very last step to us meeting our wee babies Very Happy
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 12:00 am 
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Hi red, youre very right.. but im s anxious about it.. as whether i like it or not this baby has to come out.. and although im dying to meet my wee baby i cant get over what birth may be like.. although im hoping for a 30 minute labour lol xxx
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:43 am 
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im due a couple of weeks before you mum2b and a week before you nicola...i am dreading it...i dont wanna be cut down there i am gonna try sitting up as i have heard it helps gravity.....but like ppl keep saying " your not the first and your not the last to give birth " still dosent make it any easier though Crying or Very sad
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:40 am 
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im just terrified of hospitals, and anything that happens in them.. even though im so exited for m scan on weds, i will probably still have a panic attack going there.

My last operation, they had to sedate me to give me the general as i was panicking majorly. They couldnt get the line in, and they had to stab me to get it in.. so its fair enough that i was panicking.

But when i think about birth and any medical procedure they have to do, it scares me sh*tless.. i am really really anxious about the whole ordeal!xx
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:00 am 
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Same here hun.I really didnt want to to in to hospital for the birth,but it's the only real option,don't have enough space at home for a home birth and we only have 2 birth centre's but neither are close enough,so hospital it is!

I hate them with a passion and my OH is even worse,so i can see me being left on my own for some of it,although he assured me he won't,cos i'll kill him if he does!lol\

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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 12:22 pm 
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I'm not scared of hospitals or anything, i'm more scared of the pain, i really dont have any pain threshold at all Sad

I've also never stayed in overnight in the hopsital so im not looking forward to that
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 5:04 pm 
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me either hun,that's why i'm hoping all goes smoothly and i can be let out the same day.really dont wanna be there any longer than i ahve to x
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:52 pm 
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I think II'm due very close to you on Jan 9th. This is my third baby, but I'm still scared of the birth, in spite of a wonderful experience giving birth to my second son. Remember there is lots of options in pain relief - I found gas and air fantastic at distancing me from the pain and making me too high to feel anxious. Also remember you will have your wonderful baby at the end of it!
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