Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 3:02 pm
Post subject: sd family
my oh daughter is 14 months she such a good little girl but her mum doesnt do anything with her she cant wait for the weekends so we can have her everyother weekend and my oh parents have her the other weekends but if we cant have her 1 day or something she says that she has her 24/7 which onnly she looks after her on a tuesday day time because she goes out everynite and gets her mum too look after her all the other times.
its like she does care for her she cumes in newborn clothes and thy are all dirty and stained.
and when oh parents pick her up last week her and her mum asked them that they were worried when ruby goes into the cot because they think we were going to put them both in the same cot!!! do they really think we are that dumb!
also oh parents look after herso much i dont ever want to leave ruby with them over night because they play all the attention onto her not ruby i no this becuase when we go to theres they rush to her not ruby do you think im being unfair feeling like this?
Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 1:11 pm
I don't think you are being unfair at all.
The babies should be treated the same. I really wish i could advise you more, but my Stepchildren are older. xxx
After 3 and half years of ttc, tests being clear and unable to adopt, we have decided to become a patchwork family. Me, my hubby and stepchildren.
Its so sad to know I will never hear the word 'Mommy'.x
Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:24 pm
I totally know where your coming from, me and my partner are expecting our first child in Oct.... he has a 3 yr old from a past relationship, His perants are exactly the same, They look after her all the time and his ex never really has her. We have her 2 nights every week. We do so much more for her than his ex's family and even her tbh!!!!
Grin and bare it hun.....thats all you can do!